Children always make emotional parents how to do mentalist

Children always make emotional parents how to do? [Abstract] the baby often emotional, parents are always racking their brains to punish the child and consider the hesitation between the child’s self-esteem, I do not know how to take the way to deal with the situation. Here to share with you a four step action guide to teach you to effectively deal with children’s mood. 1 listen carefully to the child when the child shows emotion, he has had an uncomfortable feeling. At this time, if the parents can concentrate, listen carefully, children often feel the concern from parents. This will also make the child feel more secure and safe, and more willing to tell their parents more emotions. Of course, the listening here must be a sincere attitude, not a deliberate effort to show it. Perhaps, you will say that sometimes the child will not be emotional, not noisy, will be particularly quiet, this time how to listen to it? In fact, you can also listen, but this time you can not listen to the ears, you need to use your eyes, with practical action to listen to the child’s emotions. When their children face tightly wrinkly eyebrows, dull eyes, dejected, you can go to the child, patted him on the shoulder, quietly sitting with him, if not speak, children can feel their parents care and companionship. Maybe a little later, the child will talk to you about what happened, even if not to say, the child’s mood will be comforted by your company. 2 positive response, said you mood on children accepted in to listen to children and their parents from time to time with "Oh", "I know", "this is the original" of the child’s description and emotion response. This not only allows the child to feel more real parents listen carefully, but also let the children feel their own attention from the response. What’s more, the children can feel the truth of their own and temporary emotions are accepted by their parents. This is tantamount to saying that the children feel uncomfortable in the parents here have vent channels and place to place. In this way, in response, the child’s emotions have been released and release. But need to be reminded that, at this time is a positive response to the fact that the child’s emotions, rather than to identify with the child’s erroneous views. For example, children crying exam you can listen and say "Oh, I see, it is so that you will be so sad." But if you respond to this child is not very good: "I also think that the exam is very sad." This is equivalent to the child you agree with the wrong idea behind the sad – that the exam results are too important, not a good thing is a bad thing. This will only increase the child’s mind. [Abstract] the baby often emotional, parents are always racking their brains to punish the child and consider the hesitation between the child’s self-esteem, I do not know how to take the way to deal with the situation. Here to share with you a four step action guide to teach you to effectively deal with children’s mood. 3 understand and use appropriate language to sum up the child’s emotions behind the understanding and ideas sometimes, the child does something wrong, criticized by the teacher, or the failure of the exam, he will be sad sad. At this time the children most want to hear is not the parents speak the truth. Because the child will be sad, sad, disappointed.相关的主题文章: